How to make friends with anyone.

Seven Simple Steps to Finding Friends Forever

I was just summarizing the seven key components to build friendship.

1. Smile

2. Share the other person’s reality

3. Be happy to see them

4. Listen with interest

5. Call the other person by their name

6. Ask other people for help

7. Take time to be there for them

For the first time I felt that I don’t need to learn anything from this e-book. This chapter is simply redundant! I don’t mean to criticize but I just feel that to gain friendship and trust from the people you love, one must come with an open heart, sincerity and happiness.

I love smiling at my friends, even if they don’t, I would make sure they share with me what’s happening and get them to pour it out to me, because I am always ready to listen and I am really interested to know what’s stopping them from being happy! I have no powerful words to describe how I feel friendship as but I don’t want to just smile and make friends just because it’s great to have a lot of friends. I want true friends who see the equal importance as I do to them and each friendship I have is always very special. If not I will always have my ways to step in closer into their lives, like what James Skinner had stated, “asking them for help”  so that I can make them feel important and powerful. I don’t need to go into such moves so much cause building friendships shouldn’t be technical! It’s from the Heart! If you love somebody, just let nature take its course. I don’t need to have so many friends but to have no one to talk to! Or rather I would prefer to have friends, real friends, whom I can always talk to, hang out with and feel awesome!

To end my review, I feel that it is still very important to have a wide connection of friends, and always be nice and treasure friendships, because god knows what will happen the next day and whose help do you need in the near future. Be truthful and it is just extremely important to be yourself when it comes to friendship because you have to be sincere, else you would just present yourself as a total fake and you will probably annoy and disgust the person.

Also, friendships are hard to come by and true friends are rare gems. Show appreciation to them by being the best in yourself and always be nice to the people around you. Smile, because if you do, the whole world will get affected by your happiness as well and that’s what draws the attention. Treat people the way you want to be treated, if you want to feel special and great, you have to make your friends feel special and great!

And I doubt you will need any book to teach you that!

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